Many women try hard to enhance their sexual attractiveness. They wear make-up, go on a diet, or take plastic surgery to look sexually attractive. They try hard 

to enhance their appearance since they know that men give more attention to sexually attractive women than to other women. Many of them think that it is only 

for their own satisfaction and has nothing to do with other people. However, standards of self-satisfaction is also based on other people's standards of attractiveness. 

They will not try that hard to look attractive if they are living in a desert island all by themselves.

     Women who focus on enhancing their sexual attractiveness tend to connect with men mainly focusing on sexuality. Then, they may develop wounds in mimind 

in spite of themselves and even develop wound dissociation. Men give them attention considering them as sexual objects and such women's body, mind, and sexuality 

end up being destroyed. Women who have sexual attractiveness may feel satisfied and happy when they get attention from men, but their wounds keep growing.

     On the other hand, women with true charm are not perceived as sexual objects by men. Men generate pure passion toward such women and try to protect their 

body, mind, and sexuality. Men try to build the relationship of love and happiness with women with true charm and do their best in every aspect of life so that both 

of them can become happy.

     Also, women with true charm have balanced appearance and healthy body, mind, and sexuality. The man who is in love with such a woman perceives the woman 

as the most sexually attractive woman and the couple can live a happy life with sexual happiness as well as with love and passion. This mechanism applies to every 

couple regardless of age.

      Do you want to become a sexually attractive woman or a woman with true charm? When you focus on your appearance and try to become sexually attractive, 

men perceive you as a sexual object and try to take advantage of you instead of protecting you. Women must try to build true and unique charm instead of sexual 

attractiveness. Then, they can have true sex ability and become most charming women who have wounds treatment ability and the ability of sexual happiness. They 

don't have to depend on anyone or seek attention from men. Pursuing sexual attractiveness induces wounds in women's mimind and turns women into sexual 

objects, which leads women to enter a vicious cycle, destroying their own body, mind, and sexuality.